{"id":164,"date":"2018-08-05T14:27:40","date_gmt":"2018-08-05T13:27:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/?p=164"},"modified":"2018-08-05T14:29:37","modified_gmt":"2018-08-05T13:29:37","slug":"gratitude-in-the-spiral","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/?p=164","title":{"rendered":"Gratitude in the Spiral"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Earlier today, I was reminded of Joanna Macey&#8217;s <em>Work that Reconnects<\/em>, specifically The Spiral:<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/workthatreconnects.org\/spiral\/<\/p>\n<p>All of us will be able to use different frameworks for reflection and\/or problem solving at different times in our lives, and what I like about the Spiral is its simplicity. Starting from a place of gratitude echoes ideas put forth by many therapeutic approaches: Start with identifying the resources we already have and build our resilience by acknowledging and appreciating them. It is important to strengthen our resilience before tackling difficult emotions and\/or problems so that we don&#8217;t become <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nicabm.com\/trauma-how-to-help-your-clients-understand-their-window-of-tolerance\/\">overwhelmed<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>When we&#8217;re feeling depressed and anxious, or we&#8217;re in a great deal of pain and distress, it can be hard to remember what it is we can be grateful for so I&#8217;d like to suggest that it is good mental health hygiene to start a daily gratitude exercise. I have a &#8216;gratititude jar&#8217; &#8211; every morning I write down one thing I am grateful for from the previous day on a small piece of paper, then place it in an old Mason jar, which sits beside my desk. I get a great sense of wellbeing from this exercise, and it gives me more energy to start my day. Conversely, when I struggle to remember what I am grateful for, or I skip the exercise altogether, I take this as a sign that something is amiss and I set aside some time, as soon as possible, to reflect on what is troubling me.<\/p>\n<p>There are many examples of gratitude jars online, but it is simple and cheap: a big enough container to hold a year&#8217;s worth of paper slips, scrap paper, a pen or pencil, and a few minutes at some point in the day or night to do the exercise. I find doing it in the morning helps energise me, but it may work better for some people to do it right before bedtime, so you can drift off with a pleasant thought in your mind&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Earlier today, I was reminded of Joanna Macey&#8217;s Work that Reconnects, specifically The Spiral: https:\/\/workthatreconnects.org\/spiral\/ All of us will be able to use different frameworks for reflection and\/or problem solving at different times in our lives, and what I like about the Spiral is its simplicity. Starting from a place of gratitude echoes ideas put &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/?p=164\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Gratitude in the Spiral&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorised"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=164"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167,"href":"https:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164\/revisions\/167"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=164"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=164"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nathaliegriffin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=164"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}